OK so my title might not be entirely truthful. I'm not open with the rest of the world. Only with my wife. My wife and I thought for the longest time that I only had a foot fetish. After looking into more and finding Zoe Dommes blog I found out that I was a submissive. Or as the Dom wives call it "subby hubby" I nervously admitted to my wife of my new findings. I'm not very open to begin with. She was, to my relief, ABSOLUTELY alright with who I found myself out to be. She also agreed this to be true about me as well.
I wanted to start this blog not to tell "stories" but to track our progress in our new path in our marriage. We are very private and She does not intend to make any profit from our lifestyle. She doesn't trot around in leather and keep me on a leash etc. We are normal people I guess you can say. She feels that not everyone needs to know I enjoy serving her and she enjoys a personal slave. I don't even think she would want to share this with trusted friends who are similar. She just wants her life to be enhanced as much as possible. Things only a submissive like me will gladly provide. (chores, foot worship, cooking) We are both new to this and want to get advice as well as help anyone in our position find their place in their relationship.
So here is what is on my mind so far about everything since it is new to us:
We started establishing rules/expectations. (hers of course) Sexually, and to be perfectly honest, I'm used to being able to release in my own private time if need be. That is not the case anymore. I know she knows I need it and its been about 48 hours. I hurt so bad. But we haven't discussed a chastity yet. I don't think she wants me in one, but I'm being obedient as possible as proof that I don't need one. Does this pain go away? I used to have intercourse/masturbate at least once a day and now I don't know when because we haven't discussed yet.
I also constantly keep in mind of going the "extra mile". In another blog I read, it mentioned this. (thinking of it like staying in a nice hotel or eating at a nice restaurant and getting a special treat by surprise because the staff got to know you without being intrusive) What do some of you subs do? Wives, what do you expect? Is there anything in particular I should listen up for/ask to get better ideas?
Please comment so I'm not talking to myself :)
